Personal Development – Choosing Between Love And Fear

Personal Development – Choosing Between Love And Fear
Different people have different views of personal development. This is because it can be viewed from varying points of view. For some people they may see it as a natural advancement in life, while others may simply want to stop experiencing certain bad feelings. The important thing is for us to understand it better, so that we may be able to achieve it. With achieving it, you will basically have a better way of living; you would become more satisfied, and simply continue to live life happier each day.

In changing your life with it though, you will need to come up with certain decisions, and increased levels of understanding certain things. For starters, to change your life for the better with personal development, you will need to choose between love and fear.

If you are living your life based on the point of view of fear, you will not feel secure and happy. You will always be on alert, anticipating the worse, and looking out for danger. With this, you will constantly find faults among the people around you. You will become a judgmental person, who will constantly think about what other people should have done, what you should have done, and always go into deep analysis, on a lot of what-ifs. Because of this, you will constantly feel tired or fatigue, since it will require a lot of energy to think of all those negative thoughts. In addition, with all these thoughts, you will soon think that the world is indeed a scary place to live in, which is full of jealousy, sadness, anger, injustice, and feel the need to control everything that surrounds you, so that you won’t have to experience the pain that comes with it.

On the other side of the plate, if you choose seeing life at the point of view of love, you will be filled with positive energy. You will always think that everything will soon fall into place. Aside from that, you would also have more faith in your friends, relatives, colleagues, and even with strangers. With this kind of living, you will be able to relax, and accept the flaws of other people, the world, and even yourself. In other words, you will be able to channel your energy to more important things, than fear. Because of that, you will soon find your life improving, since you will be surrounded with positive energy, which will also rub off to people who are near you.

Keep in mind that you always have a choice to let go of your fears. When you do that, you would actually be choosing not to be judgmental anymore, you choose to be calm, and you choose to become more loving. This simply means that you will gain more control over your emotions. In many cases, our emotions usually get the better of us. It can turn a minor situation worse if we choose to let our negative emotions take control. If you can recall the situations where you had outbursts of anger, you will realize that you could have made those situations better if you chose to have remained calm and controlled your anger.

This is basically the first few steps you will need to take to achieve personal development. Starting today, try to control your emotions, and after some time, you will be able to realize the improvements you made.