Personal Development ? Be a good conversationalist

Personal Development ? Be a good conversationalist

You all must know one person in your class or at your workplace who adds life to the dull and boring environment. Everyone likes to be his or her friend and talk to her .Everyone takes advice from them and share all their personal problems or professional problems with them. Everyone gives them the most attention in the group and they are invited in every party. This is because they are a good conversationalist. They are very interesting and have an excellent sense of humor.

•  Some people have inborn X factor in them but even you can become a good conversationalist. You should try and inculcate a good sense of humor within yourself because if you are a serious person and you are always cribbing and talking about your problems, people will go away from you as everyone is so engrossed in their own problems that they cannot afford to take burden of other problems and they wish to seek happiness.

•  They enjoy the company of happy go lucky people who are always smiling even if they are going through hardships in their lives. You must have listened to the phrase “laugh and the world laughs with you cry and you are left alone”.

•   Everyone will love you if you are cracking jokes or using some nice one liner which would make everyone forget about their worries and tensions. Happy people are usually like magnets and everyone gets attracted towards them.
•  Conversationalists have something to say about everything. They have knowledge of all the fields besides their own field like sports, entertainment, art, events, politics and latest gadgets.
•  You like to converse with such people because you feel that you are gaining some knowledge by talking to those people and they can guide you in taking some sort of decisions.

•  In order to have a good personality you should read newspapers, listen to the news and read magazines to know what’s going on in the world.

You should develop at least one hobby which you call your own.

Sports : you should have an interest in at least one sport as sports not only teach you good qualities like sportsman spirit, leadership, teamwork, patience, acceptance of defeat, hard work and kindness but they also keep you fit and healthy.

Music: you should learn to play at least one musical instrument or sing one genre of music. If you like to listen to music then you should know what sort of music you like to listen to, what are your favorite singers and what are your favorite compositions of that particular person.

Art: you can develop some sort of art like poetry, painting,, poster making or any other art which would add a new dimension to your life and make you a complete and a confident person.

Photography: If you are interested in photography, you should be aware of the best photographers in the world, latest cameras available in the market. You should know whether you like to capture events, people, nature or yourself.